Go back to this post and re-read it.
Now ask yourself this question:
In the same scenario, if all the women were handed a note that read, "The Cake that was brought into the room is laced with a lethal dose of arsenic", would any one of the women be "tempted" to take a piece?
For those deep thinkers: No, none of the women in the room are feeling suicidal.
Let us reason together: Would a note that read, "Leave the room immediately, so that you are not tempted by the cake" work with all of them? Would a note that read, "Stay strong; don't give in; resist it" work with all of them? Would a note that said, "Don't be tempted and then you can come to the "accountability group" tonight to share your victory over temptation" work for all of them? Would a note that read, "Remember, you wanted to loose weight and that is more important to you than that darn piece of cake-you can do it; your are strong; I believe in you" work for all of them?
If not, why not?
So, what is my point? I will revisit this again once we have had a chance to think and ponder.